My work as a coach can help in many forms in relation to weddings. From a very early age, nearly all young girls and many men actually, dream about their wedding day. For many it is definitely one of the most important days of their lives. Think about it – you have finally decided that this partner is the one and that you will commit and devote the remainder of your entire life to them. You will marry and want to make the special day as perfect as possible. You will spend money making it that way and it will be witnessed and enjoyed by a crowd of family and friends from both sides.
Gulp! Then the fear sets in. How can I stand in front of all those people? What if something is not right? What if something goes wrong? What if, what if, what if? Welcome to the onset of wedding nerves!
Firstly, let me express that wedding nerves are very common. Often, sufferers of wedding nerves also feel bad and guilty that they should be feeling extreme happiness and yet they are more focused on negative vibes. So don’t worry – these feelings are felt by a large number of people that are preparing for marriage.
‘Good news’ is that this doesn’t also affect the bride or groom. Other key members of the special event also come to me for assistance. These are usually feeling the fear of public speaking or performance. The best man and the father of the bride are the usual but can sometimes also include head bridesmaids. On some occasions I have also had to work with the mothers themselves as they sometimes feel too overwhelmed with emotion to conduct themselves as desired on the special day ahead.
Help is Here:
Working with a range of applications and strategies, I am able to help all of the above diffuse these nervous feelings and then focus on making their part in the day as confident and successful as can be.
For those that are interested, I also offer an extra service for couples (which can include the extended family if desired) in which we carry out a process that helps to magnify an extreme connection and helps to install a compelling future to look forward to ahead. This is a very nice piece of magic that can make the wedding occasion event more special and intense with all the more positive emotions!
If you would like to find out more about any of the above mentioned services, then please connect with me.